I don't need another panegyric, telling me that I'm "worth more" or that finding the "right one" will make things simple. I already know that - already know that I am involuntarily wasting my own time, hoping that they'll one day see me as I see them. What I really need is to learn how … Continue reading Learning to Free Yourself From Unrequited Relationships 🥀
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McDonald’s and Meltdowns: The Fragility of the Mind 🧠
My choices matter — and there are paths towards making wiser ones — but I cannot choose what I choose. Sam Harris Today was a real wake-up call that my brain is on the brink. It was the first time I truly realised that "me", my mind and body are totally separate entities. And yet, they … Continue reading McDonald’s and Meltdowns: The Fragility of the Mind 🧠
The Single Debate: Are You a Better Version of Yourself When You’re Alone..?
The heat is on. The clock is ticking. The fine lines are setting in and the hips have taken shape. All the biological signs are pointing towards having a baby, and yet, all the psychological ones are wanting to pursue anything but. By 2021, I'll have been single (and celibate) for 5 years, which … Continue reading The Single Debate: Are You a Better Version of Yourself When You’re Alone..?
This is The One Thing That Will Make or Break Any Relationship
"Never give more than you're prepared to lose." - It's a philosophy I like to live by every day because, even if I stick my fingers in my ears, close my eyes and cry out, "LALALALA" loudly enough, it still doesn't change the fact that some people out there are just, well... Useless. I try … Continue reading This is The One Thing That Will Make or Break Any Relationship
Clinging Onto Broken Love Won’t Help Fix Your Broken Heart
Huff and puff all you like, but despite what you think (or want to hear) holding onto the fragments of a broken relationship won't save you from heartache. In reality, you already know this. You are completely aware that it's over and that you no longer want the repeated cycle caused by your messy partnership. … Continue reading Clinging Onto Broken Love Won’t Help Fix Your Broken Heart
I’m Looking For Mr Fiction
Over and over again, I have fallen in love with men that don't exist. I have found my ideal partner within the pages of a book, walking into focus on the big screen or singing softly in my ear. The mere thought of them makes my heart skip a beat. But, according to all of … Continue reading I’m Looking For Mr Fiction
Follow These 3 Golden Rules For a Successful Relationship
As crazy as it may sound, the driving force behind any successful relationship is not just sex. Insane, right? Of course, it goes without saying that being sexually attracted to your partner is quite a necessity and having fun between the sheets is pretty important too, but it's not the standalone activity that keeps the relationship … Continue reading Follow These 3 Golden Rules For a Successful Relationship
I Beg of You, Don’t Go Back to the One Who Broke You
Watching you do this to yourself over and over is killing me. You think that it doesn't affect me but you're wrong. You can tell me this is your life but since the day you asked me to swim in the waters with you, I've been pulled under by the current. I'm drowning at the … Continue reading I Beg of You, Don’t Go Back to the One Who Broke You
One Day, I Will Meet Someone New
I have been burned before. Love has left scars that never seem to heal. Pain that never seems to go away. But I know that it won't last forever. Because someday, I will meet someone new. One day, I will meet someone who will keep their promises. No more will I be left sat nursing … Continue reading One Day, I Will Meet Someone New
9 Annoying Things Singletons Don’t Miss About Being in a Relationship
Feeling the pressure to look good 24/7- Now there's no one to impress or fear spontaneously turning up on your doorstep, allowing your Voldemort side to roam free is of no risk! For the times you don't have to worry about looking pristine for work or going out with your friends, you can simply go … Continue reading 9 Annoying Things Singletons Don’t Miss About Being in a Relationship